Skip to content
Deacon Keith Fournier Hi readers, it seems you use Catholic Online a lot; that's great! It's a little awkward to ask, but we need your help. If you have already donated, we sincerely thank you. We're not salespeople, but we depend on donations averaging $14.76 and fewer than 1% of readers give. If you donate just $5.00, the price of your coffee, Catholic Online School could keep thriving. Thank you. Help Now >

Hospital wedding of terminally ill woman a powerful witness, priest says

Free World Class Education
FREE Catholic Classes

The recent wedding of a young Brazilian woman with terminal cancer was a powerful witness to the sacrifice and permanence of marriage, said the priest who celebrated the sacrament for the couple.

Highlights

By (CNA/EWTN)
Catholic Online (https://www.catholic.org)
8/29/2018 (2 years ago)

Published in Americas

Keywords: Hospital wedding, terminally ill woman, powerful witness, priest says

Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, (ACI Prensa).- Fr. Mario Silva celebrated the wedding of a young couple, Jessica and Fernando, in the chapel at the NapoleĂŁo Laureano Hospital in the Brazilian state of ParaĂ­ba Aug. 20.

Silva told ACI Prensa, CNA's Spanish language sister agency, that the couple had been civilly married in 2012 and had a three-year-old child.

Jessica, who is now 27, has been fighting a very aggressive form of bone cancer since 2016 and had been hospitalized when the priest was called to administer the sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick.

"That night, she was in a lot of pain, and when I finished administering the sacrament to her, I asked her... if I could do anything else, and she told me she wanted to get married," Silva said.

"She told me she had a great desire to receive the blessing of God and she knew that was missing. That would be a great healing and grace in her life. She did not want to die without receiving the blessing of marriage, because both were Catholics and had the dream of getting married in order to have a sacramental life," he explained.

"I called her family and they gave me the husband's telephone number. I asked him if he were interested in getting married. I began to visit the hospital more often and to go through with the process of determining whether they could enter into marriage or not," he related.

Fr. Silva obtained the authorization of the Archdiocese of ParaĂ­ba to celebrate the wedding in the hospital and processed the couple's corresponding papers. He interviewed the couple to ensure that they were certain in their choice and that there were no impediments or grounds for nullity.

He also discussed the nature of sacramental marriage with them.

"I emphasized that this was not simply a social event that lasts a night and then people need another one. I told them that marriage is something that they were administering, that they were giving themselves one to another and that I was just an assistant," he recounted.

"I explained to them about love, fidelity, joy and sadness in sickness and in health. At that moment I turned to speak to the groom: Fernando, you are aware you are marrying Jessica in a very difficult moment in her life. If your love is capable of enduring these difficulties, you will be able to give her a definitive and free ~yes ."

Face Mask with Cross BOGO 50% OFF

During the homily, the priest spoke "about how people have little hope for Christian marriages" and that celebrating the wedding of Jessica and Fernando was a light for the whole hospital. "I think that that was what created such a stir, besides that the bride and groom had a beautiful appearance," the priest said.

While Jessica rarely smiled while in the hospital, Silva said, "On the day of the wedding, she was smiling and spoke with great ease which was unusual. You could see that she was very renewed." He said the bride told her that the sacramental wedding "was like starting over or being reborn."

"Her husband takes very good care of her and wants to accompany her every day. He left his job and everything to take care of her. He gave witness to permanence and the Catholic marriage was a concrete realization of that," the priest emphasized.

This article was originally published by our sister agency, ACI Prensa. It has been translated and adapted by CNA.

Never Miss any Updates!

Stay up to date with the latest news, information, and special offers.

To all our readers, Please don't scroll past this.

Deacon Keith Fournier Today, we humbly ask you to defend Catholic Online's independence. 98% of our readers don't give; they simply look the other way. If you donate just $5.00, or whatever you can, Catholic Online could keep thriving for years. Most people donate because Catholic Online is useful. If Catholic Online has given you $5.00 worth of knowledge this year, take a minute to donate. Show the volunteers who bring you reliable, Catholic information that their work matters. If you are one of our rare donors, you have our gratitude and we warmly thank you. Help us do more >

Saints Fun Facts Coloring Book FREE PDF

Free PDFs: Hail Mary, Our Father, How to Pray the Rosary & more

PDF educational & learning resources for Students, Parents, and Teachers and it’s 100% FREE. How to Pray the Rosary, Hail Mary, Our Father, Saints, Prayers, Coloring Books, Novenas, Espanol and more. All FREE to download and faithful to the Magisterium. Download Now >


Catholic Online Logo

Copyright 2021 Catholic Online. All materials contained on this site, whether written, audible or visual are the exclusive property of Catholic Online and are protected under U.S. and International copyright laws, © Copyright 2021 Catholic Online. Any unauthorized use, without prior written consent of Catholic Online is strictly forbidden and prohibited.

Catholic Online is a Project of Your Catholic Voice Foundation, a Not-for-Profit Corporation. Your Catholic Voice Foundation has been granted a recognition of tax exemption under Section 501(c)(3) of the Internal Revenue Code. Federal Tax Identification Number: 81-0596847. Your gift is tax-deductible as allowed by law.

Subscribe to Our Newsletter!