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By Fr Samuel Medley, SOLT

11/7/2012 (4 years ago)

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In this year of faith, let us neither be beat down by the brute force of this world, nor be forced into rash reactions of our faith, but with serene courage that comes from our Eucharistic Lord, tackle each challenge squarely and surely with patient perseverance.


By Fr Samuel Medley, SOLT

Catholic Online (

11/7/2012 (4 years ago)

Published in Year of Faith

Keywords: Year of Faith, homily,

HYTHE, KENT, UK (Catholic Online) - "You have to do it.  You must hate your parents if you are really going to follow Christ."  Five huge guys that rivaled the defensive line of the 49ers NFL football team were sitting gathered around me at a table.  

They were all part of a Christian sect I had encountered during my time there at the University of Minnesota in Minneapolis and they were there to convince me, by hook or by crook, to join them.  I think this was part of their intimidation tactic, with brute psychological force, to try to tell me that the Catholic faith that my parents had brought me up with was all a mistake and that unless I joined their club I wouldn't be saved.

Gulp.  I swallowed the big lump in my throat that had been forming after my imagination ran wild with what exactly they would do when I would refuse. 

Then I heard myself say, "I am prepared to do anything to follow Christ, even to sacrifice my own life, but I ain't gonna join the Mickey Mouse squadron here just because you are trying to intimidate me.  What are you going to do?  Kill me for not signing up?"

Each one of the characters that were before me had joined this obscure Christian sect, and as part of their initiation they had to sever all ties with their family members, move into a house with the others, and renounce anything that kept them from giving their all to the community.  

Ok, ok, I have to admit I was impressed with them at a time when I was searching for deeper meaning in my own Catholic faith.  Perhaps that is why they were emboldened to think that I might even consider joining.  The unity of presentation, high level of commitment, intense sense of belonging and purpose they all shared was extremely appealing to a young idealistic Christian mind yet it was obvious that they were all half bonkers.

The world is loud and intimidating.  The more it errs the more it insists that its way is the only way.

Yet how insane it is when errors like these are applied to the interpretation of Scripture and to living out the Gospel of Christ.  These radical statements of Jesus, like the ones in today's gospel, are the favorite pickings for sects and Christian cults, and really anyone who wants to take Jesus' words out of context.

"If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple."

The world will acutely disappoint us, make us disillusioned to the nth degree, and try to crush us bitterly, and so it seems like the only way to reply is with a proportionately powerful rejection of its terms.

The Lord doesn't mince words, and yes, the love of God is so extreme and demanding that it does mean that there is absolutely nothing and no one, not the love of my family and friends, the love of everything I know to be good, not even the love of my very own life that ought to stand in the way.  For this reason we must take St Paul's words to heart in the first reading, "Work out your salvation with fear and trembling."  

Yet we also remember the Second Vatican Council's principle of interpreting Scripture: CONTEXT (Dogmatic Constitution on Divine Revelation, 12).  The Catechism of the Catholic Church (112-114) nicely organizes these into three points:  1. Context of the whole of Scripture.  2. Context of reading it "within the living Tradition of the Church."  3. Context of "the analogy of faith."

In this Year of Faith, let us neither be beat down by the brute force of this world, nor be forced into rash reactions of our faith, but with serene courage that comes from our Eucharistic Lord, tackle each challenge squarely and surely with patient perseverance.  May Our Lady help us to be firm yet balanced in the presentation and living out of our faith.

Father Samuel Medley, SOLT, is a priest of the Society of Our Lady of the Most Holy Trinity, and is currently based in Hythe, Kent, United Kingdom.  He is a speaks to groups around the world on Blessed Pope John Paul II's Theology of the Body.  Visit his homily blog or his blog on sexual ethics 


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