Advent: Friendship with Mary
By Jennifer Hartline
12/8/2008
Catholic Online (www.catholic.org)
Gentle woman, tower of strength, beacon of faith, humble servant...O, highly favored daughter!
CHESAPEAKE, Va. (Catholic Online) - One of my favorite things about being Catholic (there are many) is enjoying a rich and blessed friendship with Mary. This time of year that friendship is particularly sweet. Contemplating the endless ways Mary leads my heart to Jesus is in itself a feast for the mind and soul.
Today, though, I was thinking how strange it is that Mary is the source of so much contention and strife between Catholics and Protestants. How is it that arguably the most faithful, obedient, trusting and loving follower of Christ ever can be such a lightening rod of controversy? What Christian wouldn't want to follow her example?
Can any of us say we would have the faith and courage to do what she did?
Would you?
Would I?
She obeyed at the risk of her own life. Joseph had the legal right to have her stoned to death and she knew it. It's not as though Gabriel told her, "Don't worry about Joseph's reaction. I'm going to explain everything to him."
Her instinct to obey the Lord was stronger than any instinct for self-preservation. From the word "Go" she was only interested in doing God's will completely. The cost did not matter.
Later, she did something much, much harder than risking her own life. She witnessed her son's execution. She did it without losing her faith, without ever breaking trust with God.
Now, I'm not a physically imposing woman. Okay, I'm a total wimp. I probably couldn't punch my way out of a paper bag. But I assure you, if you threaten one of my children, I'll take you out with my bare hands. Period. Now you've made Mama Bear angry, and you're in trouble.
But Mary, so full of grace, walked every inch of the road to Calvary with Jesus and stood at the foot of His cross. She listened to the cursing, hateful, vile wickedness being spewed at Jesus from his murderers (that would be me), and never intervened to stop it. Can you even imagine that? As a mother, could you watch and do nothing while someone brutally killed your child even if you knew it would save someone else? ( Someone who didn't deserve it!)
She quietly restrained herself and trusted God to accomplish His plan. She squelched the mother's instinct to protect her child, the urge to trample those who hurt her baby out of perfect obedience, humility and TRUST. She knew God, knew He was faithful and knew she wanted to cooperate with His will.
If that's not a perfect example of loving and serving God with all your heart, soul,and strength, then I don't know what is.
How amazingly wonderful it is to have such a woman for a friend...a blessed mother...the Blessed Mother. Gentle woman, tower of strength, beacon of faith, humble servant...O, highly favored daughter!
Now I pray that God will enable me to grow in grace and follow her example...
"I am the handmaid of the Lord...Let it be done to me according to your word."
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Jennifer Hartline is a Catholic Army wife and stay-at-home mother of three precious kids who writes frequently on topics of Catholic faith and daily living.
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Thank you for taking the time to write about Mary, the Mother of God. I enjoyed your writing and am inspired to write this to you to encourage you to write some more. As Catholics we must try to continue to keep Mary in the place that she deserves, as the Mother of God, as the human who gladly answered the call. Many would ask why we pray to her as she is not God, but they do not understand the prayers to intercede to God on our behalf. Please continue to serve God with your writings, I really was not only inspired, but entertained. God bless you.
Barbara | 1/1/2009
Jennifer...Many thanks for your wonderful and inspiring article on Mary, Mother of God. Your "human consideration" of Mary as the Mother of the Christ God adds some "flesh and blood" to the "cold" theological truths annunciated by the Council of Nicea and Ephesis which proclaimed Christ as God and Mary's relation to Christ and to God. Hopefully your "human consideration of Mary as the Mother of the Christ will inspire people to better realize who and what Mary did when she willingly consented to God's will for her life. We pray that people will re-focus their lives to the Christ God and Mary.
Fr. August Busch | 1/1/2009
I am a lost soul that is trying to find my way back home, and I just wanted to let you know Mrs. Jennifer that your words about our Blessed Mother have given me a True understanding of the sword that pierced her heart. Thank you.
Joshua | 12/30/2008
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