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Mary's Choice: Surrender to Love

8/15/2008

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this work of the Holy Spirit unlike anyone in history. She had been clothed in that wonderful gift when she was first visited by the angel and “overshadowed.” It empowered her to live her whole life in complete surrender to God’s will and to thereby prefigure the mission of the entire Christian community throughout history.

Mary understood all of this because she was a woman in love –with God. Mary was a woman of prayer, an ongoing conversation and intimate communion with God. We are invited into her prayer because we are invited into that same relationship with God. Understanding and living the Prayer of Mary is about living a life of surrendered love. It is about being- more than about doing. It is about response- more than initiation. It is about encountering God relationally, personally and intimately. It is about a receiving, giving, receiving, giving….and thus becoming a person for the Lord and in Him for others. It is about offering the “Fiat” of a surrendered life. Mary’s “Fiat” (“let it be done”), freely given in response to the visitation from the messenger of heaven, the angel, provides a pattern of prayer and a way to live for every follower of her Son.

In the biblical account her Fiat issues forth into the very real fruit of her praise, her “Magnificat.” This song is recorded in the sacred text of the New Testament of the Bible and begins with the words” My soul doth magnify the Lord.” This hymn of praise has been memorialized in that ancient, beautiful, biblically based prayer that the Christian tradition refers to as “The Magnificat” (Luke 1:46-55).

This prayer contains the very essence of the Christian faith, the Christian life, and for those with eyes to see, ears to hear and hearts to understand, reveals the very meaning of human existence. We were made to give ourselves away in love because we were made for God.

The “Fiat” is more than a prayer and the “Magnificat” more than a hymn of praise. Together they constitute a lesson book, a guide, and a road for this journey that we are all called to walk. Our daily life, so very real and human, with all of its blessings and all of it’s pain, can be packed with meaning, purpose and destiny; if we have the eyes to see, ears to hear and hearts’ to respond with the kind of voluntary surrender that was so beautifully expressed by Mary, the Virgin of Nazareth. That response to the gift of God reveals the heart of true faith.

This lesson book is desperately needed by Christians, indeed all people of good will, in this age so characterized by pride, arrogance of power and grandiosity.

The pattern of that prayer and the melody of that song reveal the pattern of Mary’s entire life and the score of what our own is meant to become. It follows along a trajectory of surrendered love. It begins with Gods gift and invitation, proceeds to a response, leads to praise and is intended to bear the fruit of a meaningful life, pregnant with the promise of redemption.

It is this pattern that we must make our own if we are to comprehend and live its relevance in our own lives. When we learn to walk in “Mary’s way”, which is the way of her Son and Savior, we will find the meaning of life itself because we choose through love to give “our” lives away in love, to the One is Love. Mary said "Yes" to the invitation to love and she humbled herself. She confronted her own fears and she entered into a new way of living. All of this was in continued response to an original invitation of love, a gift, initiated by a loving God.

Her simple response of “yes” overflowed into her "Magnificat" of praise. Through this response, she assumed a life’s posture of receiving and giving, she became a fruitful woman, a "God-bearer" or "Mother of God" (which in Greek is Theo-tokos). She brought forth the Word of God and “the Word became flesh and dwelt among us”.

Her “Yes”, her humble surrender, bore the fruit of her “Magnificat” which bore the fruit of the Word, which was spoken and birthed through her. This is a kind of trajectory of love. It provides a prototype of the vocation of every human person who says “Yes” to God and learns to bear the fruit of surrendered love. Her “Yes” touches the inner core of the meaning of life for all men and women who are children of the one Creator. We were made to give ourselves away to the Lord and to others.

God is not an “add on” to our life. Rather, He is its source and its summit. Authentic and fruitful spirituality is “inside out” rather than “outside in.” There is a way, a pattern that all men and women are invited into - not just once, but daily. This is the way of surrendered love. Mary’s surrender reveals the deeper meaning of every human life and is the true path to authentic peace.

It is the portal of the mystery of meaning itself. It is what Christian Scripture calls the “more excellent way” (1 Cor. 12), the way of love.

Mary understood and walked this way with extraordinary humility.

Is it any wonder that the early Christians painted her image in the catacombs during their moments of fear, persecution and doubt? They found great inspiration from this little woman of great faith. In her “yes” they came to understand that ordinary people can change human history. They were inspired to add their own “yes”, their own “fiat” to hers.

Is it any wonder that the writings of the early “fathers” of the Christian Church are also replete with reflections on this woman who said so little verbally in the biblical text? That is because it is not about an abundance of our words but rather our receptivity to the Word.

Justin Martyr and many other early Christian apologists found in her “fiat”, her obedient “yes” to the angel, the undoing of the “no—I will not serve” uttered in rebellion by the first woman Eve. They called Mary “The Second Eve”, the mother of a new creation, because she said “Yes” and in her womb carried the One whom the biblical authors would call the “New Adam.” Jesus Christ was born from her as the first born of a new race of men and women who would themselves come to find a new birth through His life, death and Resurrection through saying “Yes” to him in both word and deed..

That same Redeemer now comes to reside within, and live through, all of those who respond to the invitation of Love like Mary did. All who are prepared and who surrender.

Mary’s choice, her response to the invitation of a God who always respects human freedom, is a singularly extraordinary event in all of human history. However, it is meant to be much more. It is meant to be an invitation to each one of us to explore our own personal histories and to write them anew in Him.


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Pope Benedict XVI's Prayer Intentions for January 2013
General Intention:
The Faith of Christians. That in this Year of Faith Christians may deepen their knowledge of the mystery of Christ and witness joyfully to the gift of faith in him.
Missionary Intention: Middle Eastern Christians. That the Christian communities of the Middle East, often discriminated against, may receive from the Holy Spirit the strength of fidelity and perseverance.

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  1. Carolina
    4 years ago

    I really enjoyed the article, I do wonder, is there an angel that can intercede for our relations?

  2. Diane Johnson
    4 years ago

    Thank you!
    The essence of love...
    Thank you!
    Open your heart...
    Listen,
    To these words here.
    Thank you!
    Remeber you are blessed.

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