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By Tara K. E. Brelinsky

2/4/2014 (1 year ago)

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Not only is abortion the back-up to contraceptive failures, it is the extended money maker.

If the pro-life movement doesn't acknowledge that contraception leads directly to abortion, then it will never succeed in extinguishing the wildfire. We didn't begin this tragedy with 54 million dead babies on the abortionist's floor (that is in America alone, not counting those babes aborted through contraceptive means), we began it with the erroneous belief that conception was separate from sex. If we hope to end this holocaust, we need to train our nozzle of energy, time and resources at the central igniter, as well burn pile.


By Tara K. E. Brelinsky

Catholic Online (

2/4/2014 (1 year ago)

Published in U.S.

Keywords: contraception, March for Life, Michael Voris, The Vertex, Brendan Malone, The Leading Edge, abortion, Tara K. E. Brelinsky

ZEBULON, NC (Catholic Online) - While house hunting, we happened upon a sweet southern lady. She would turn out to be the previous owner of our current abode, a fine gentlewoman full of spunk and hospitality. Proudly, she pointed out what she considered to be a pivotal selling point. In her melodic drawl, she advised, "Y'all can burn in the country!" Spying the numerous blackened patches and charred stumps that dotted the grounds, it was clear she practiced what she pitched. Deed transferred, we'd come to appreciate the necessity for yard waste disposal with the abundance of flower and fauna spread across our yardage. 

A few years later, the deep gully in our chicken yard had amassed an ample amount of logs and limbs, dragged down from our neighbor's lot by fierce spring rains. Added to that was the dry, weathered Fraser fir from Christmas past and all the twisted, rotting scraps the kids had freed from my azalea bushes. Seeing as the weather was the right balance of early fall temperatures combined with still summer air, I set about to preparing a controlled bonfire.

Carefully, I built two piles as my helpers stretched the long, green hose from the nearest spigot. Once all safety precautions had been enabled, I stuck the match and set the blaze. It would surely have done Mrs. Wade proud to see those flames dancing hot and steady. There's something about a bonfire that excites the heart. Maybe its the inviting warmth that calls you closer or maybe its the hypnotic tongues of fire lapping up the oxygen. My brood and I fed and monitored that burn until the sun started its descent. Then, as the smells of supper wafted out from the kitchen, I decided it was time to enlist Smokey's advice (to prevent forest fires) so I pointed the hose squarely at the center of the flames.

A good bit of time passed with me standing guard, hose in hand. Enough water had met its target so that a small swift river was flowing down the gulley and all appearances of smoke had ceased. The wood looked thoroughly saturated in my estimation; therefore, I called it a day and headed inside.

Satisfied that I'd accomplished my day's task of rendering most of our yard waste to ash and properly extinguishing any resultant threat, I peacefully laid my head down that night. You might imagine my shock at what I discovered the next morning. Smoke and heat were wafting from my pile which was also substantially smaller than when I'd left it. Apparently, my fire woman skills were lacking as I'd failed to snuff out the source of the fire.

The crew and I participated in the 41st annual March for Life in Washington, DC last month. Coverage of the event is always minimal at best so any mention of it calls my attention. Scrolling on social media I was intrigued by an article debating the tactics of Michael Voris of The Vortex at the March. The article by Brendan Malone, of The Leading Edge, alleged that Mr. Voris was creating divisions among pro-lifers at the event because while interviewing attendees he asked whether or not they supported contraception. It seems many were accepting and saw no dilemma in their stance.

While I won't weigh in either way on Mr. Voris' tactics, I must agree with the point he was trying hard to make. According to Guttmacher stats approximately 68-72% of Catholic women contracept. Certainly, Catholics are not the only pro-lifers, but that statistic is similar to the population at large.

Well, everyone knows that access to affordable, convenient contraception reduces the need for abortion, right? I mean pro-lifers need to target their attention on the bigger problem at large which is simply the aborting of the unborn, agreed? I mean these are two separate battles, aren't they?

Consider that according to Guttmacher, "Fifty-four percent of women who have abortions had used a contraceptive method (usually the condom or the pill) during the month they became pregnant." Only, 8% have never used contraceptives. Get that? More than half of women seeking to dispose of their unborn babes had been attempting to frustrate their conception in the first place (i.e. thought they couldn't get pregnant because they were using contraceptives).

What Mr. Voris was trying to expose, I believe, was the ember that fuels the raging firestorm of abortion.

I've written about contraception before, but undoubtedly the topic is far from exhausted. As the interviewer unveiled at the March, many pro-lifers are soaking the blaze with good efforts and righteous confrontation, but until we target the interior ignitor we will never fully succeed in the fight.

Going back to those stats it is clear that contraception does not reduce abortions, indeed it actually leads to more abortions.

Firstly, it is important to remember that hormonal contraceptives like the Pill and devices like the IUD are, in and of themselves, abortifacients. That means they can and do abort newly conceived children before their mothers even know of their creation. So, to begin with, contraceptives abort babies. Just because no one has discovered their conception doesn't nullify their killing.
    "In summary, according to multiple references throughout the Physician's Desk     
    Reference, which articulate the research findings of all the birth control pill    
    manufacturers, there are not one but three mechanisms of birth control pills:    
    1)inhibiting ovulation, 2)thickening cervical mucus, and 3) thinning and shriveling
    the lining of the uterus to the point that it is unable or less able to facilitate the    
    implantation of the newly-fertilized egg. The first two mechanisms are contraceptive.
    The third is abortive." Additionally, the mini-pill, the IUD and the drug RU-486
    have abortion as the primary operation.
    Alcorn, Randy. Does the Birth Control Pill Cause Abortions? (Eternal Perspective Ministries: 2007)

Secondly, contraceptives delude couples into thinking sex and procreation are not necessarily connected events. Men hear that a woman's fertility is a feature they can opt out of; and women are sold the idea that their healthy, functioning bodies are in need of medical intervention. A child is nothing more than choice. This distorted notion is the oxygen feeding this inferno. When a man and woman view sexual intercourse as nothing more than a pleasurable activity void of long-term effects, they don't bother to consider or plan for the future or a different outcome. The unexpected child is then viewed as a threat and a failure, a problem to be remedied.

The medical community has done a fantastic job at convincing the populous that it has the remedy for most of what ails us. (Unfortunately, they have incorrectly taught women that fertility is an ailment when instead it is a healthy, function of the female body.) Indeed it has done its job so well that now people sue their doctor when his promises of health and vitality fall flat. Remembering that more than half of those seeking abortion were depending on contraception to avoid the "problem" of a child in the first place, it is easy to see the "need" for a back-up plan. And the medical community has filled the need by offering abortions. Not only is abortion the back-up to contraceptive failures, it is the extended money maker.

Oh, but my doctor doesn't "do" abortions, you argue. Well, if your doctor wrote a prescription for your "sister's" contraceptive then he/she is complicit in abortion- via the abortifacient components of the contraceptives or her decision to procure a back-up abortion.

By further extension, if patients have been promised sex without procreative consequences, they certainly aren't interested in the unexpected blessing of a child with special needs. No worries, the medical community is happy to weed out those pesky, needy children whose parents bothered to consider allowing the unplanned pregnancy to continue.

Like the hot burning ember contained in the core of my bonfire, so is contraception to the pro-life fight. Sex divorced of procreation is, simply and honestly, a lie. True, there are ethical means by which to postpone pregnancy, but couples who choose to practice periodic abstinence understand that sex is the means to the procreative powers.

If the pro-life movement doesn't acknowledge that contraception leads directly to abortion, then it will never succeed in extinguishing the wildfire. We didn't begin this tragedy with 54 million dead babies on the abortionist's floor (that is in America alone, not counting those babes aborted through contraceptive means), we began it with the erroneous belief that conception was separate from sex. If we hope to end this holocaust, we need to train our nozzle of energy, time and resources at the central igniter, as well as the burn pile.


Tara K. E. Brelinsky is a home schooling mother of eight living children, with six more heavenly ones who intercede. Married to her childhood sweetheart, they make their home in North Carolina where they teach Natural Family Planning, grow a garden, raise two dogs, a cat, a fish, ducks, roosters and a flock of hens (in addition to all those wonderful kids). Tara studied journalism a lifetime ago in college, but now she writes simply for the the glory of God. You can read more of her musings and inspirations on her blog "Blessings In Brelinskyville"


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