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Catholic Teen Defends Her Right to Attend Mass: Margeaux Graham Chooses Faith Over Honors

A high school junior in Florida has put her academic reputation on the line to stand up for her faith.

While the nation discusses and debates the attacks on religious freedom, a high school junior in Florida has put her academic reputation on the line to stand up for her faith. Margeaux Graham was selected this year to participate in The American Legion Auxiliary's prestigious 9-day leadership event, the "Girls State" program. When Margeaux learned she would not be allowed to attend Sunday mass during the event, she decided to decline the honor.

Margeaux Graham declined American Legion honors for the sake of her faith.

Margeaux Graham declined American Legion honors for the sake of her faith.

WORCESTER, MA (The American catholic) - (This article originally appeared at The American Catholic.  It is reprinted here with the author's permission.)

"The American Legion Auxiliary is the world's largest women's patriotic service organization. Through its nearly 10,500 units located in every state and some foreign countries, the Auxiliary embodies the spirit of America that has prevailed through war and peace. Along with The American Legion, it solidly stands behind America and her ideals."

Well?

While the nation discusses and debates the attacks on religious freedom, a high school junior in Florida has put her academic reputation on the line to stand up for her faith. Margeaux Graham was selected this year to participate in a prestigious 9-day leadership event in her state's capital. The American Legion Auxiliary (ALA) of Florida has an annual "Girls State" program whereby the participants "learn how to participate in the functioning of their state's government in preparation for their future roles as responsible adult citizens." It is a "nonpartisan program that teaches young women responsible citizenship and love for God and Country. They are awarded 3 college credits and rare notoriety in the college application process.

Margeaux is a faithful Catholic. That is, she takes her obligation to attend Mass as just that - her obligation. When she inquired about nearby Catholic churches to plan where she would attend, she was told by the staff that the only opportunity any of the girls would have to participate in a Sunday service is to attend the "non-offensive", non-denominational service offered for all at the conference. The event takes place at Florida State University and the cathedral is nearby the campus. [see update] A member of the national American Legion even contacted the Auxiliary to arrange for a priest to celebrate Mass on campus, and this accommodation was denied.

So Margeaux took action herself. She wrote to the organizers declining the invitation, with firm resolve, unless she was allowed to attend Mass. This is her letter, reprinted with permission. Mind you, she is a high school junior.

TO: American Legion Auxiliary Unit #21
FROM: Margeaux Graham
RE: Girls State 2012
DATE: May 7, 2012

I am regretfully writing this letter to formally inform you that I will be unable to attend Florida Girls State in June. I am extremely honored that you found me worthy to represent American Legion Auxiliary unit #21 and am devastated that I cannot participate. I attended orientation on May 6, 2012 and was informed by [name private] that I would not be allowed to attend Mass on Sunday.

My faith is very important to me, as it has been to countless Americans. This country was founded on the principles of religious and personal freedom, the fundamental rights that either you or your loved ones fought to protect. It is disheartening that the Florida Girls State program is structured in such a way that it prohibits participation of young women who have a strong conviction for their religious practices.

The only opportunity to participate in a Sunday service is presented in a "non-offensive", non-denominational service. As a Catholic Christian I find it offensive that I am not allowed to attend Mass and am perplexed as to how this service could accommodate the beliefs of other religious groups, such as Jews, Muslims, Buddhists, Hindus, and all Christian religions. I am disappointed to see the lack of respect for religious creed from the Florida Girls State program by limiting participants to only one religious paradigm.

Miss [name private] made it quite clear that I had to choose between my faith and Florida Girls State. I was looking forward to attending with great zeal, the knowledge, experience, and friends gained would have been invaluable. My faith has made me who I am, it has shaped me into the young woman that you chose as your delegate, for me to deny my faith would be hypocritical. Words cannot express my disappointment that the Florida Girls State program is designed to only accommodate delegates who fit into a pre-determined religious belief system or none at all.

Margeaux Graham
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Brava!

The letter was forwarded to the State Director, who forwarded it to a state level officer, who also identifies as Catholic, and thus felt compelled to respond to Margeaux. Here is part of her response, emphasis mine.

"Only an elite group of young women are given the privilege of attending each year and it is a once in a life-time opportunity to do so. Along with that privilege comes some sacrifice. They must attend an orientation ...

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1 - 10 of 33 Comments

  1. Graziella Raluy Zierold
    10 months ago

    Que Dios te bendiga (God bless you!) Greetings and blessings from Mexico City. Faithful Catholics here are now devastated because of the "victory" of the PRI party in our elections last July 1st. This is the party that murdered thousands of Catholics during the presidency of its founder, President Plutarco Elías Calles. This is the party responsible for murdering students and other civilians in 1968. Please pray for us. The party claims it has changed, but this election was "won" through countless unfair actions. The party voted with the PAN party in favor of a law that will ensure religious freedom and open it to a more explicit and public expression. That law will be made effective next January, but we fear the party will violate it and other laws like the one that protects freedom of speech. Please pray for Mexico. We will keep the USA in our prayers, too, especiallly for your own elections in November.

  2. Jabulani
    11 months ago

    God bles u young lady, u ar realy blessed. I'v learnt a lot from your letter, and my prayer 4 u is to ask God to proctect u and make u a gud leader who fears and respect God with your heart. Am so blessed to read this article. 'GUIDE ME OH THOU GREAT REDEEMER, PRILGRIM THROUGH THIS BARREN LAND...' am singing dis hymn 4 u and I. God bles u

  3. Bill McCarthy
    11 months ago

    VIVA CRISTO REY!!!! If 14 year old Blessed Jose Sanchez del Rio could go to his death shouting this phrase (go see For Greater Glory) Margeau Graham can miss this anti-religious organization's event. Bravo to her for stnding up for her Faith. Viva Cristo Rey [long live Christ the King].

  4. carmen vazquez
    11 months ago

    Margeaux (Margarita, in Spanish), If all of us, Catholics, were as faithful to God as you have just demonstrated, our world would be different..,.if you denied to attend this very important event, that means that our dear Lord has something greater for you than the honor you were given by men and women. God bless you always and thanks for you brave example...for sure, He always will be by your side...

  5. Manuel Morales
    11 months ago

    God Bless you Margaux.
    This letter should be sent to Ms. John Biden, Miss Nancy Pelosi, Miss Sibelius and other "catholic" (?) politicians.
    Bravo!

  6. DR
    11 months ago

    God bless you Margeaux! Taking a stand against tyranny is what this country was founded on and what government used to be about!

  7. Mary Juliet Zinabala
    11 months ago

    what an inspiration? I wonder how many of us (Catholics) would be able to defend our faith. I feel great inner joy for her courage and faith. Margeaux Be blessed. Many of us who have read this article can as well share it with others to help each other keep on the pat h of faith. Surely, we should pray that we are able to defend our faith at all times. Many of us, our stories won't be written all over sites but our actions in our respective communities, societies should leave a foot print and also preach the good news that will echoe to as far as the Lord would allow.

  8. suzanna
    11 months ago

    Maybe I would have attended and just went awol to go to Mass. Most churches have early Masses (6:00 or 7:00) and she could have just told the front desk at FSU that she was going to Church and will be back in an hour.

  9. Nancy Roman
    11 months ago

    Thank you for your example. Your parents raised you well. God should be the center of our lives not just a Sunday chore. God bless you. Nancy, Chicago, IL

  10. val padilla
    11 months ago

    I admire her zeal. When the Lord comes...will He find faithful servants ?


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