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Behold Your Mother: Mothers Day and the Gift of Mary, the Mother of the Lord

5/14/2012

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disciple there whom he loved, he said to his mother, Woman, behold, your son. Then he said to the disciple, Behold, your mother. And from that hour the disciple took her into his home. (John 19:26, 27)

Mary was there at the Incarnation, Birth, Crucifixion, and Resurrection of God Incarnate. She was there throughout the often called hidden years in Nazareth. In the life of the Redeemer, every word and every act was redemptive, revealing as it does the very life of God, the mystery of heaven touching earth, and the deeper purpose of our own lives. She was there in those moments whose impact is timeless. They are still as filled with the invitation of grace today as they were when they first occurred.

She was there on the great day of Pentecost, the birthday of the Church, which we will soon celebrate. She was there as the first evangelizer and disciple who gave the first Christian testimony to her cousin, Elizabeth, and won the first convert in utero in the person of John the Baptist. This event, traditionally called The Visitation, is recorded in the Gospel of St. Luke (Luke l: 39-45).

This encounter immediately follows the visit of the Angel Gabriel to Mary (Luke 1:6-38) and is one of the fruits of her humble obedient response. That response was not a onetime reaction. It was the fruit of a life of surrender and stretched forward to characterize her whole life on this earth and her participation in the eternal communion of Saints. The Prayer of Mary is more about being than doing. It is about surrendered love to God.

Her Fiat [Medieval Latin, from Latin, let it be done) in response to the visitation from the messenger of heaven, the angel, provides a pattern of prayer and a way to live for us. It immediately issues forth in the fruit of her praise of the Lord. This canticle begins with the words in Latin Magnificat anima mea Dominum (My soul magnifies the Lord) This hymn of praise is memorialized in that beautiful biblical text which ancient Christian tradition referred to as The Magnificat (Luke 1:46-55). The Fiat is more than a prayer and the Magnificat more than a hymn of praise. Together they constitute a lesson book, a guide, for this journey called life. We are called to respond to the Lord's invitation as well.

She said Yes to the invitation to love and she humbled herself. She confronted her own fears and she entered into a way of living. All of this was in continued response to an original invitation of love, a gift, initiated by a loving God. Her simple response of yes overflowed into her magnificat of praise. Through this response, she assumed a life's posture of receiving and giving, she became a fruitful woman, a God-bearer or Mother of God (which in Greek is Theo-tokos). She brought forth the Word of God!  Her Yes, her humble surrender, reflects a trajectory of love and is a prototype of the vocation of every human person to bear the fruit of surrendered love.

It reveals the meaning of life for all men and women who are children of the one Creator. God is not meant to be an add on to our life. Rather, He is its source and its summit. There is a way, a pattern that all men and women are invited into - not just once, but daily. It reveals the path to authentic peace and is the portal of the mystery of meaning itself. It is what Christian Scripture calls the more excellent way, the way of love. Mary understood and walked this way with extraordinary humility. (1 Cor. 12:31) She shows us the pattern of love surrendered to Love.

Is it any wonder that the early Christians painted her image in the catacombs during their moments of fear, persecution and doubt? They found great inspiration from this little woman of great faith. In her yes they came to understand that ordinary people can change human history. They were inspired to add their own yes, their own fiat to hers.

Justin Martyr and many other early Christian apologists found in her obedient yes to the angel, the undoing of the no-I will not serve given by the first woman Eve. They called Mary The Second Eve, the mother of a new creation. In her womb was carried the One whom Scripture calls the New Adam, he was born from her as the first born of a new race of men and women who would find a new birth through His life, death and Resurrection.

That same Redeemer now resides within, and lives through, all those who respond to the invitation of Love like she did. Mary's choice, her response to the invitation of a God who always respects human freedom, is a singularly extraordinary event in all of human history. However, it is meant to be much more. It is an invitation to each one of us to explore our own personal histories and to write them anew in Him by exercising our own freedom by choosing the more excellent way.

Mary shows us the way to surrender to Gods loving invitations in our daily lives; a path, to living a life of surrendered love. When we embrace it , It allows Love Incarnate, the Savior whom Mary bore to be, in a real sense, to be incarnated in and through each of us so that He can be given to others. We become God Bearers, bring Jesus christ to others.

We become the tent and the ark within which that same God takes up His residence, comes to dwell, in our age - which is so desperately needs His saving presence. When we begin to touch and grasp this profound insight we not only find ourselves transformed but learn how to become the vehicles through which Love is incarnated for all those around us. He comes to dwell in all men and women who say Yes to Him. Whoever loves me will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our dwelling with him. (John 14:23)

Mary shows us how to participate in the ongoing incarnation of God's Love for the sake of world; to live redemptively. We are called to bear God to an age in need. In living this kind of surrendered life we are transformed and participate in the mediation of God's love to others. The ongoing creative and redemptive work of God's love continues through us. That is, if we learn to respond the same way Mary did: Behold the servant of the Lord. Be it done unto me according to Thy word. We truly are living in a Mary Moment. Happy Mother's Day.

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You may order a copy of Deacon Fournier's Book of relections on Mary entitled "The Prayer of Mary, Living the Surrendered Life   In addition, Catholic Online now offers a virtual pilgrimage site dedicated to Mary the Mother of God.


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Pope Benedict XVI's Prayer Intentions for January 2013
General Intention:
The Faith of Christians. That in this Year of Faith Christians may deepen their knowledge of the mystery of Christ and witness joyfully to the gift of faith in him.
Missionary Intention: Middle Eastern Christians. That the Christian communities of the Middle East, often discriminated against, may receive from the Holy Spirit the strength of fidelity and perseverance.

Keywords: Mary, Mother, Marian, Rosary, Mother of God, Mother of the Lord, Full of Grace, Our Lady, Fatima, Mystical Rose, Deacon Keith Fournier

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  1. Diana
    1 year ago

    Why did you bury this article. Shame on you. Never forget your Mother!

  2. Bill Sr.
    1 year ago

    My Mother Mary…….yes, that Mary….
    ….who was living a simple life dedicated to serving the God of Israel from her very early childhood.
    …who was full of grace and awaiting the angel’s salutation to share a child with the Holy Spirit and carry our Lord in her womb for nine months that He might carry the Cross of Salvation for all of us.
    …who, in union with God’s plan, willfully in true charity and sacrifice accepted the prophecy, announced on her son’s first visit to the temple by Simeon, because of this child that her heart would be pierced like non before her.
    …who cared for and nourished that child sharing house, home, and daily family and personal exchanges of love and devotion with Him for thirty years as He grew to manhood.
    …whose mutual love had so entwined its trust in her young son that it would allow Him leave of her for nearly two days journey in their humble land (a preview of his passion and burial) until she would become aware of His absence from friends and her own loving care.
    …who, as His closest companion over many years, knew exactly where to look for Him upon her return to Jerusalem.
    …who would accept His decision to be about His Fathers work but with a mothers love guided His youthful ambitions to a more proper time and place for fulfillment where at her wish and petition He initiated His ministry with the miracle at the wedding feast of Cana.
    ,,,who faithful to words of God to Simeon had to watch with a bleeding heart the horrid brutality thrust upon her child during His powerful passion.
    …and finally that Mary, who though weeping in sorrow would be so willing to lovingly listened to and carry out her son’s dying request along side the disciple whom He loved well that she now take John under her wing in place of Him and that John in turn protect and defend her among men until she rejoined her son the Prince of Peace in heaven.
    This Mary, the world’s very first Christian, is my mother and should be recognized in faith as truly the mother of all Christians.

  3. abey
    1 year ago

    Where there are two, of which one is true, off God & the other which is untrue(truth corrupted 'cause by the origin all was true & with God all is true) to the adversary not of God & to this are the Christ & the Pseudo christ(s), Mary & the false one(s) or called pseudo mary(s) even unto the political, incorporated in the true & false beliefs that is to redemption & non-redemption respectively & in this the former is to the truth of Christianity which is to Christ & the latter to all things of the Pagan to the adversary. In the case of Mary also called as the redemptive Mother in the ways of the New Eve not unto satan fully contrary to the ways of the old Eve or called the fallen mother caught in the satanic grip & so be their children accordingly, but all called By Mary To & In Christ, the Will of the Father to the Worship of GOD, which is to His first commandments in a clear revelation given by Mary off Jesus, even unto the Patriarchs & the Prophets , all of this condensed in the words of God, "For I place before you life & death, Choose Life" & in order to choose life we need to understand that which is to death. God & His word do not change, sans time.

  4. jh
    1 year ago

    Remarkable and insightful comments here, Deacon. Thank you. I don't know how long it takes you to write an article but the fact that you write so many, and they are so full of information and connections with our own lives, I do appreciate your hard work.

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