By: Deacon Keith Fournier
He calls, we hear and say "FIAT," "Yes". That is Mary's way.
"And Mary said to the angel, "How shall this be, since I have no husband?" And the angel said to her, "The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you; therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God. And behold, your kinswoman Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son; and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren. For with God nothing will be impossible." And Mary said, "Behold, I am the servant of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word." And the angel departed from her (The Gospel of Luke 2:34-37) (Luke 2:38).
How "impractical" the spiritual life seems to some. Maybe this is because we have become what we call "practical" - meaning that we have lost the ability to hear and see God? This loss of the sense of the sacred is why the Way of Mary is so vital in this age which has lost its path to peace. In the words of one of the great, holy Bishops of our own age: "The so called "practical people" are not really the most useful in the service of Christ's Church, nor are those who merely expound theories. Rather it is the true contemplatives who best serve her; those with the steady generous and passionate desire of transfiguring and divinizing all creation with Christ and in Christ. It may sound paradoxical, but in the Church of Jesus Christ, the mystic is the only practical person" (Bishop Alvaro del Portillo).
Perhaps we have followed the "pied pipers" of some schools of self improvement that neither improve nor help us truly find the self we seek to improve?

Annunciation - Simone Martini - 1333

Madonna Annunciate - Francesco di Girgio Martini - 1469
Perhaps we have followed modern simplistic formulas packaged as remedies for our emptiness and despair, only to find them even more meaningless at the end of all that effort? Mary's Way invites us to learn to listen for the voice of God, to change the way we live. It is the way of surrender to the One whom she bore and who was her Redeemer and Son. We need to learn to listen to the One who seeks a relationship of communion. When we learn to listen, to stop our incessant flurry of activity, we will begin to hear His wooing, His loving invitation as Mary did and enter into an authentic relationship with the God who created us and knows both who we are and who we can become. He calls, we hear and say "FIAT", "Yes." That is Mary's way. The path to a fruitful spiritual life is surrender to God.

Annunciation - James Powell - 1888

The Annunciation - Rogier van der Weyden - 1440
This is a paradox to the modern mind. In losing our life we find it. (Mt. 10:39) In surrendering our self through love we find out who we are meant to become. This insight is not simply a paradox but a path, a way that leads us to authentic prayer. It grounds us in the love of God and the life of grace, no matter how hectic our daily routine becomes. Prayer becomes not something we "do" but a participation in the very life of God, a way of being with God, with ourselves and for the whole world. It prompts a new way of seeing the world wherein the ordinary becomes extraordinary and daily events become naturally supernatural. This is the beginning of authentic spirituality, the kind that truly improves us because it leads us to the One who is the "Way, the Truth and the Life." Mary's way must become our own.