World Congress Speaker Calls for 'Monogamy Men' to Take Back the Culture
By Austin Ruse 8/21/2009
Catholic Family and Human Rights Institute (www.c-fam.org/)
There are two competing cultures of sexual morality and both have a profound effect on culture and public policy.
Patrick Fagan, family scholar at the Family Research Council.
WASHINGTON, D.C. (C-FAM) - Patrick Fagan, family scholar at the Family Research Council, told the World Congress of Families last week in Amsterdam that there are two competing cultures of sexual morality and that both have a profound effect on culture and public policy. Fagan called one culture “monogamous” and the other “polymorphous” and he warned that one is “snatching” children from the other.
Fagan told the audience that “the culture of the traditional family is now in intense competition with a very different culture. The defining difference between the two is the sexual ideal embraced [by each].” He described an “elegance in the simplicity of the ideals behind the two cultures: monogamy and polymorphous serial polygamy, or ‘polyamory' for short. “
Fagan said the “constitutional state was the product of monogamous culture [while] the expanding social welfare state is increasingly the product of polyamorous culture. The constitutional state is built upon a sense of the sacred and gives religion a public place even as it protects the freedom of religion [or no religion] for all… The social welfare state today is more comfortable with atheism or at least the removal of religion from the public discourse and the total privatization of religion and the sacred.”
On the life issues, Fagan said that in monogamous culture “all human life is sacred and protected, be it the pre-born, the handicapped or the elderly” while in polyamorous culture about one-third of the pre-born are killed by their mothers and the handicapped and the elderly are unwelcome and increasingly vulnerable to early elimination.”
Fagan warned that while monogamous culture is fertile and expanding and polyamorous culture is in below replacement fertility, that polyamorous culture is still expanding through their control of three areas of public policy: “education of children, sex education, and adolescent health.” Fagan said that through such control polyamorous culture “snatches children away from their parents and away from monogamous culture in ways analogous to the Ottoman Turks of the 14th century who raided boys from Christian nations to train them aS their own elite warriors, the Janissaries.”
Fagan said “this snatching is almost complete when these three program areas result in adolescents accepting and engaging in sexual intercourse” and that “every time the polyamorous programs and media succeed in drawing teenagers into sexual activity they have captured another Janissary.”
Fagan described efforts monogamous culture has used to fight back, especially the rise and success of abstinence education, but also explained the way polyamorous culture rose up and crushed it. He also pointed out that the campaigns against home schooling are an effort by the dominant polyamorous culture to stop parents from protecting their children.
In the end, Fagan called upon “monogamy men” to fight back. He said the only answer is for them to fight for control “over what is his and his family’s just due, what his taxes fund, and what he can use in raising his children, control over the three big programs of childhood education, sex education and adolescent health programs.”
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'This author writes for C-FAM. This article first appeared in the Friday Fax, an internet report published weekly by C-FAM (Catholic Family & Human Rights Institute), a New York and Washington DC-based research institute (www.c-fam.org). This article appears with permission."
Comments
Basically Kevin I think he is talking about the culture we are experience today.
People living together. Not courting in the way the Catholic Church intended.
I know not everyone believes as we do but one needs to take a good look at Humanae Vitae.
It predicts what we see today.
Im probably not up on the words he speaks of but I came through the 70's and my time was the roaring 80's.
We were promiscuous and it culminates in the culture you see today.
I think he is asking we Catholics and anybody to take the culture back but not backward.
I guess the best way I could put it to you Catholic guys is this:
EWTN has a great show on Friday nights I think after or before the World Over. Check the listings.
Anyway from a women's perspective I think its one of the most excellent men's show on TV when it comes faith etc.
I invite you gentlement to check it out.
Kevin you might get some more answers here on what I think he is trying to get at in a simple way for you makes.
Another recommendation find out if he has a website.
Hope this helped. Im only a laywoman so its only a simple answer from me, no expert.
God Bless
Jean | 8/23/2009
Liz, I understand what you are saying. Yet, I see problem in it. Other people outside of the church will say we going back to old days of putting women at the back of the bus again. Although this church is the only group that gave importance to women and their contribution.
But you are so right, because very few men volunteers for ministerial tasks. Men would volunteer for scouting, coaching and other "masculine" tasks.
Let us pray our notion of diversity really bear fruit in true sense.
Eddie Fong | 8/23/2009
We need more MEN to be involved in our parish life - most notably men ages 40 - 60. I don't know if I am the only one who has noticed it but an awful lot of women are in charge of ministries at our churches. I for one am tired of constantly having to see the woman's point of view - I wonder how many of these women would like to hear a man say to them: you've got to get in touch with your masculine side. We need balance and perspective from both sexes.
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