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Get Serious! Fr. James Farfaglia's New Survival Guide for Catholics

Fr James Farfaglia is emerging as one of our Catholic treasures

In his new book, Get Serious!  A Survival Guide for Serious Catholics, Fr. James Farfaglia issues a challenge to each of us, and he ain't beatin' around the bush.   In his typical straight-up fashion, he's calling all of us to stop merely warming the pews with our behinds.  Our culture is sick and depraved and literally crumbling around us. Holiness is the cure!  Don't leave sainthood to someone else.  Pursue it yourself.


WASHINGTON, D.C. (Catholic Online) - "It's time to stop picking your nose and get your butt into gear!"  How's that for spiritual motivation?  For Fr. James Farfaglia, it was just the medicine he needed.

As a young college freshman, Fr. James accepted the challenge of one of the founders of Magdalen College to get his life in order and stop "fiddlin' and diddilin'".  In short, it was a challenge to get serious - about life, about the Faith, about the soul, the will, the mind and body.  

In his new book, Get Serious!  A Survival Guide for Serious Catholics, Fr. James now issues the same challenge to each of us, and he ain't beatin' around the bush.   In his typical straight-up fashion, he's calling all of us to stop merely warming the pews with our behinds.  Our culture is sick and depraved and literally crumbling around us.  The good news is, there is a cure.  And it's not a "what" but a "who."

By God's grace, you are the cure.  But only if you get serious.

When you look at a holy card featuring a saint, do you see a real human being?  Or do you see an intangible image of a mysterious someone from a different world who succeeded in doing the impossible, which of course, you could never do?  I know what my answer usually is, sadly.  And that's precisely the trouble.  We have stopped aspiring to sainthood.  While all hell breaks loose outside our door, the would-be saints on earth have grown cold, timid and lazy, or are simply MIA.

We can't long for an age we weren't born into (as tempting as it is).  We can't dream of easier times and grow discouraged at the challenges we face today.  This is our hour in history.  This is the culture we must transform.  Only saints can dispel the darkness closing in on us with the light of Christ.  Only saints can dismantle the lies and deceptions of our "enlightened" age with eternal Truth.  Only saints can tell about the irrational Mercy that all our sin cannot exhaust.  Those saints are staring back at us in the mirror.

Are you ready to get serious about your faith?  To snap out of your lukewarm, semi-comatose state and make some profound changes in your life?  Good!  Fr. James has laid out a clear instruction manual to get you moving toward a meaningful spiritual life.  But first, let's get one thing straight.  As part of the laity of the Church, your call is to sanctify the temporal order.  Father explains, "Your home, your neighborhood, your place of work, your school, the supermarket, the restaurant, the ball field and the movie theatre are all part of the temporal order."  It's in your everyday life with its everyday problems that you need to be holy.

In fact, Father writes, "You should not be walking around with rosary beads hanging from your eyeballs.  You can't look like some kind of weirdo or religious fanatic.  If you want to bring people to the Gospel of Jesus Christ, you need to look normal and professional."

He begins with some very practical advice that may not seem all that "spiritual" at first glance, such as the necessity of a daily schedule.  Consider it the foundation of your spiritual house.  It's precisely because our modern lives are so round-the-clock and chaotic that we must establish and maintain the discipline of a schedule.

Included in this daily order are what Fr. James calls the "basic aspects of human formation.  Clean rooms, well-groomed hair, ironed clothes, polished shoes, and personal hygiene all make up the fundamentals of what it means to be human.  Grace does not work without human nature, it builds upon it.  First a man, first a woman, and then the saint."

 "Discipline is essential.  You will not be able to live out a serious spiritual life without it." he says simply.   The moments of quiet and calm we need in order to experience God will never come if we don't organize our time.

Maintaining a schedule is what allows us to prioritize prayer and actually make it happen, because we all know that when the day runs away with us, prayer time is the first thing to be postponed and neglected.

Without a disciplined prayer life, we'll never grow out of our "spiritual kindergarten" as Fr. James calls it.  I was encouraged to hear him acknowledge, "prayer is not an easy enterprise.  The spiritual life will always be a battle."  Phew!  It's not just me!

For those wanting a concrete "how-to", Fr. James lays out three levels of a daily prayer routine that anyone can follow, so there's no more wondering, "What do I do?"  All that's stopping you now are your excuses!  Father reminds us, "There will be moments ...

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  1. Johnny
    1 year ago

    We must focus on the residual graces that are given to us because of Christ,even though we don't deserve them at times.

  2. Rev. Meg
    1 year ago

    When I look at a prayer card, I see a regular person who did something so incredible that God took notice. Very often it is a single, incredible act. The Saint that most comes to my mind is St. Kolbe. As a priest incarcerated in a concentration camp during the Holocaust, he voluntarily exchanged his life for that of another man. That man survived the ordeal, found his family and lived until a very old age. Father Kolbe died by injection in the camp.

    I also read somewhere that Father Kolbe oversaw the construction of a church or a monestary in Nagasaki, Japan, before the war. The story is that Father Kolbe went against tradition on what side of a mountain the building should be located. When the United States bombed Nagasaki, that building was the only one left standing because the mountain behind it took the force of the blast.

  3. Ninov
    1 year ago

    Half way through the book now and love every minute of it.

  4. Esther
    1 year ago

    Love the article and the book written by The Happy Priest; and I agree with you Audrey, we are called to be a Catholic and we must be happy to be one, not to bury but to use our given talentas, and keep waiting faithfully for the coming of Our Lord Jesus Christ. Remember, as mentioned above, We're asked to be faithful, not successful.

    Lord purify our heart with the fire of the Holy Spirit and may we be true to our vocation and love more and more each day. Amen.

  5. Theresa
    1 year ago

    "Our culture is sick and depraved and literally crumbling around us...." What an excellent article that should wake us up to what's "in our face," and gets us on the move, here and now, if we're still sleeping!

  6. Mary
    1 year ago


    Our day and age needs this message now more than ever, thank you for this article. I have always loved my faith and have been looking into a way to get closer to it. For the last 8 years I have been a victim of non-consensual Directed Energy & Neurological Weapons experimentation (electronic warefare testing). If I can say anything to everyone, it's to fully appreciate the life you have now, love your family and friends and do good always. This world is run by a satanic agenda and I feel it will not be that long before Christ returns. Everything in the media and music is slanted to continue this lie to win unsaved souls for evil. Guard what you give your time to and everyday give the Lord time and prayer for we never know the hour or day when He shall return. Love to all! God creates Miracles!

  7. Audrey Ansibin
    1 year ago

    Very timely article - enlightening! Catholics are "sleeping giants" and we NEED to WAKE UP!

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