Let's Not Be Like the Innkeepers

By Donna-Marie Cooper O'Boyle
Catholic Online

Here we are, deep into Advent. Christmas is fast approaching. We can take a little time to pause and nourish our souls and prepare for the Christ Child.

"When the Church celebrates the liturgy of Advent each year, she makes present this ancient expectancy of the Messiah, for by sharing in the long preparation for the Savior's first coming, the faithful renew their ardent desire for his second coming. By celebrating the precursor's birth and martyrdom, the Church unites herself to his desire: 'He must increase, but I must decrease,'" we read in the Catechism of the Catholic Church (# 524).

As we renew our "ardent desire" and prepare for the celebration of our Savior's birth, in this period of waiting, we can recall that Jesus was born in a simple stable into a poor family. We know that His mother, Mary and stepfather Joseph were initially shunned because of Mary's pregnancy and then later on turned away from a suitable place in which to give birth, being forced to seek shelter, instead in an animal's home.

We can be sure that good Saint Joseph did everything in his power to shield his wife, the Blessed Mother from all harm and discomfort, which was not an easy task as he led her on a donkey, as each hoof step thumped Mary around. He tried to walk her slowly but at the same time, he felt compelled to hurry and find the place he would be drawn to, so Mary could allow the baby Jesus to finally be born. We can just imagine how Joseph felt at not being able to provide an adequate and comfortable place for her to give birth to the Savior of the world. But, God was in control.

Mouths of prophets, succeeding one another in Israel had announced Jesus' coming for centuries. Yet, our Savior's birth took place very quietly, hardly what one would expect for a King's birth, a holy occurrence of extreme magnitude. Humility, simplicity, holiness and silence surrounded the Holy Family in Bethlehem. Baby, Jesus rested His Sacred head on a bed of straw in a simple manger when it was not on his mother's breast. Common shepherds were the first witnesses to the awesome event of the birth of the Messiah.

Heaven's glory was made manifest in poverty. And as we wait in this season of quiet and anticipation of our Lord's birth, most of us, unless we are living in a convent or monastery are surrounded not with simplicity and silence, but instead, with glitz and glitter, noise, bold advertising, even shoving and fighting for parking spaces at malls in a race for sale items, and the latest gadgets or electronics. Our holy season is reduced to a preoccupation about whether or not we can manage to get our hands on the new Wii Nintendo system before it's sold out, rather than striving to come closer to the Lord in prayer - such a severe contrast to the reality of Jesus' birth - of the true meaning of His coming to us in the form of an innocent Child.

The season of Advent is a wondrous season of preparation - we prepare our homes and our Churches, decorating for this beautiful celebration. We must not forget to also prepare our hearts to receive the Christ Child. There is still time in this holy season. We can purge ourselves of what should be purged to make room in our hearts to allow Jesus in. "O marvelous exchange! Man's Creator has become man, born of the Virgin. We have been made sharers in the divinity of Christ who humbled himself to share in our humanity." (Antiphon I of Evening Prayer for January 1st)

We know that to enter the kingdom of Heaven we must become like a child. Jesus did this literally for us. We need to humble ourselves to become little. We need to make time for prayer. Visits to the Blessed Sacrament will bring us very close to Jesus and give us amazing peace, grace, and strength. We can fit these visits in while out on errands, even just for a few minutes. Jesus is waiting for us. Retreating deep into our hearts, seeking our Lord throughout our busy days of Advent will keep us in communication with Him and help us focus on what is essential during a season of hustle and bustle.

Parents should make the time for prayer within their families no matter how busy they feel they are. Teaching children to take even a moment out each morning to greet our Lord, thanking Him for a new day, offering it all to Him, and asking Him to use them, will help transform an ordinary day into opportunities for grace and redemption. Parents should make use of the dinner table as a time of coming together, lighting the Advent wreath, praying together and enjoying each other's company away from the busy world outside the door of the home. Encourage everyone to stay at the family table for a few extra minutes. We are all in such a hurry. Let's stop and be quiet. Let's stop and be together in the oasis of the family.

While we take time out during what is meant to be a season of quiet, to pause and contemplate, what will we learn about the mystery of our Lord's simplicity and humility wrapped in swaddling clothes and laying in a manger? What can we do to recapture and rekindle this holy time of year amid the chaotic atmosphere of our time? Let's begin in our families, slowing down to pause and pray, seeking moments throughout our days to offer our hearts fully to God.

We can be a light to the world, to all around us, much like the star that drew the Magi to the Christ Child. We must remember that we are all called to evangelize in all of our own walks of life, even in the household. We each have a mission to fulfill and we will know what it is when we pray.

What can we do or what changes can we make to become a light and lead the way to others? How can our words and actions help to convert hearts? Not only at this holy time but throughout our everyday lives. Let us pray that we will draw others to Jesus because they see Him living in us.

"Only when Christ is formed in us will the mystery of Christmas be fulfilled in us. Christmas is the mystery of this marvelous exchange," we learn from the Catechism of the Catholic Church (# 526.) Let us not be like the Innkeepers - shutting Jesus out, but let us pray that Christmas will be truly fulfilled in us all as we strive to become "little," allowing Christ to live through us, lighting the way to Heaven.

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Donna-Marie Cooper O'Boyle, an author, a mother of five, and a Lay Missionary of Charity writes from Connecticut. She is the author of the best-selling book, Catholic Prayer Book for Mothers, (OSV Oct. 05), The Heart of Motherhood: Finding Holiness in the Catholic Home (Crossroad Publishing Oct 06), and Prayerfully Expecting: A Nine-Month Novena For Expectant Mothers (Crossroad April 07) with a foreword by Blessed Teresa of Calcutta. All three books were endorsed by Blessed Teresa of Calcutta and given a blessing by Pope John Paul II. Donna-Marie has also received an Apostolic Blessing from Pope Benedict XVI. Signed copies of her books, as well as CD's are available through her website: www.donnacooperoboyle.com. A portion of the proceeds is donated to the Missionaries of Charity for the poor. Donna-Marie writes for numerous publications and websites. She lectures on a number of issues and can be reached through her website.

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http://www.donnacooperoboyle.com CT, US
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Cgristmas, Christ Child, Innkeeper, Advent

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