A Christmas Reflection on Suffering and Trust
let us consider St. Maria Gorretti. This dear, pure twelve year-old child was brutally and repeatedly stabbed due to her refusal to let a young man have his way with her. She was hospitalized, but died the next day after publicly forgiving Alessandro. One can only imagine the sorrows her mother felt over Maria’s violently inflicted injuries and tragic death. The story does not end there however.
Eight years into his prison term, Allessandro experienced a disturbing dream in which he saw Maria picking flowers for him. Allessandro soon converted to Christianity. Twenty-seven years later, his first act of freedom was to visit Maria’s mother and beg her forgiveness. On Christmas, 1937, surrounded by a quarter-million brothers and sisters, Alessandro and Maria’s mother received Eucharist together in St. Peter’s Square.
Pope Pius XII observed that St. Maria is a "martyr for purity". Could her life have turned out any more perfect? Is she the least bit sad over the evil that befell her during her earthly life? Imagine St. Maria in heaven picking those flowers for her former attacker – a man she truly loves in the completeness of her Christian life with God. Those flowers may have been many different colors, but each one’s fragrance was Trust.
72 years and a few days later from that time of rejoicing in St. Peter’s Square, it is again a time to renew our Faith. Christ is among us; his loving presence graces us with an inward joy and peace beyond the world. When we gaze upon the life of the Child, we see many wondrous things – all of them point in some manner to trust.
"Let nothing disturb thee; nothing frighten thee. All things are passing. God never changes. Patience obtains all things. Nothing is wanting to him who possesses God. God alone suffices." – St. Teresa of Avila
Just days ago we celebrated the Feast of the Holy Innocents. Furious that he had been deceived by the Magi, Herod "ordered the massacre of all the boys in Bethlehem and its vicinity two years old and under . . . Then was fulfilled what had been said through Jeremiah the prophet: ‘A voice was heard in Ramah, sobbing and loud lamentation; Rachel weeping for her children, and she would not be consoled, since they were no more’" (see Mt. 2:16-18).
St. Quodvultdeus tells us in a sermon, "The [Holy Innocents] die for Christ, though they do not know it. The parents mourn for the death of martyrs. The [Christ] child makes of those as yet unable to speak fit witnesses to himself. See the kind of kingdom that is his, coming as he did in order to be this kind of king. See how the deliverer is already working deliverance, the Savior already working salvation. . . . How great a gift of grace is here! To what merits of their own do the children owe this kind of victory? They cannot speak, yet they bear witness to Christ. They cannot use their limbs to engage in battle, yet already they bear off the palm of victory" (excerpt from Sermo 2 de Symbolo: PL 40, 655).
The mothers of the Holy Innocents now understand the beautiful goodness the Christ Child brought forth from the evils of their children’s death. Their tragic cries have now turned to joy; what once seemed endless unhappiness was actually a pivotal point in the lives of the Innocents. Christ wiped every tear from their eyes.
As the model of Christian trust we turn to our Blessed Mother. We can only speculate as to how much she did or did not understand of the mysterious and wondrous life she was to lead as the Mother of God. Of this we are certain: Mary understood the meanings of suffering, trust, and Providence. From that moment the angel Gabriel announced "Hail, favored one!" (Lk. 1:28), to that eve in the cave at Bethlehem, to that heart-piercing agony she experienced at the foot of the Cross, the Virgin Mary was and is the exemplar of trust. She never attempted to remove herself from whatever God presented. Rather, her answer was: "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord. May it be done to me according to your word" (Lk. 1:38).
When some cross presents itself in our life, let us not fear; for the All-Powerful Child has plans for those whom he loves; plans of such unfathomable beauty and wonder that we would die of joy should we experience them too soon. Look beyond the surface. Gaze into eternity. See the Christ Child. Give yourself to him entirely that you may see what he is doing for you.
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F. K. Bartels is managing editor of catholicpathways.com. He is a contributing writer for Catholic Online.
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Pope Benedict XVI's Prayer Intentions for January 2013
General Intention: The Faith of Christians. That in this Year of Faith Christians may deepen their knowledge of the mystery of Christ and witness joyfully to the gift of faith in him.
Missionary Intention: Middle Eastern Christians. That the Christian communities of the Middle East, often discriminated against, may receive from the Holy Spirit the strength of fidelity and perseverance.
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i myself would like to have written on the theme you have here chosen. my problem with doing so is that i am a tiny mystic consequently, i don't think i would be understood, i wouldn't be appreciated for talking. i also wouldn't want people going away from what i have written more questioning than before they read me.Drawing more to the point of what i'm saying is the fact that God ends up answering me: i never figure anything out to do with God, or religion, or the interior life, or my life when they become a problem. And i'm afraid to say but they have all become huge problems of crucifying proportions, to me.... if you get the notion of a big sinner here, its true. i'm sorry to say. As well as sorrow, i hope, penance, sacrifice and reparation and complete obedience to the Church will save me, from alone which comes the true one and only gospel of Jesus Christ.
yes, sorry for the digress, i would like to write a book on the theme you have chosen, i think its a very well chosen one, congratulations. but that's just me. what do others think? if its very popular then maybe i should write, but i think "I'm no prophet but a tender of Sikamore trees."
A really wonderful book to read on suffering and God's infinite love for us is:"The Way of Divine Love"' by Sister Josefa Menedez. This is a spiritual classic you do not want to miss!
God grant me the grace to always look beyond what I experience in the present knowing well enough that Christ knew me before I was formed in my mother's womb.
Though we don't know God's intention for us until we arrive at the point of his intention, pray that we learn each facet of each lesson that he is offering us for the growth of our spirit and our effect in the world. Pray, also, for the strength and grace to bear each gift with Christ's love.
A just and holy man is being persecuted. Please pray that his cross borne with perseverence, his burden will be lightened, and he wlll attain even more holiness through his suffering.
I can say i have waivered with my faith as again my soulmate came back in my life only to leave again. its sad but i will let her do it again too. lord, pray for my blessing of her or direct me in the right way. I have ran into 13 months of pain and i need to be blessed and relieved
I belive that God moves us in a direction that we need to go.
I came across this website by chance but I needed to come across the message as it was a message for me and my loved one. God is good.
Oh, the healing salve of Catholic media! Wounds in excess need this more than ever today. They join those of Jesus whose Gospel you help tell so well. Thank you!
I have been reading "THE LIVES OF THE SAINTS" from childhood to date. It was the very first book I was taught to read. I do a lot of "spiritual reading" daily including scriptures, & find this article so powerful that I'm posting it to "facebook" for thousands there to read. Thank you so very much for this writing, it will possibly change thousands of live's!! God bless you forever, amen.
What an inspiring article is this. As we end this year and look forward to a new one to-morrow, it is a perfect gift for renewing our resolution to follow Christ no matter what obstacles we encounter on this journey to Eternal Life. Praise be Baby Jesus